Undeniable

how to fall in love…

• enrol for a course that you’ve always wanted to pursue in…
• having your pal tell you that a friend of his friend is enrolled in the same course…
• having you making fun of her name…<bad mistake>
• having your pal tell you that she was described as gorgeous…
• having you chuckle in disbelief…
• you attend your first lesson…
• she came a bit later…
• you thinking to yourself how gorgeous she was…
• you wondering what her name was…
• you still waiting for the mentioned friend’s friend with the malay name to come…
• time passed…
• the gorgeous girl seeming to be the only probable one…
• introductions beginning…
• SHE is the girl…
• you starting to have a lump in your throat…
• you start writing down your thoughts in your diary…

something…somewhere’s gotta give,i guess.

how to start loving…

• start to listen.listening is perhaps the most overstated component of any relationship,yet it is one of the most difficult to practice at times.human nature believes in self preservation.what is of no direct significance are not worth taking note sometimes…according to some non listening party.it’s wrong.listening does one thing…it creates a sense of closeness.have you ever asked yourself how God is such a good listener.He listens to the whims and whines of His Creations every single fleeting second.and He never complains…
• start to ask questions that lead to thoughts or dreams.i place questions as the single most important thing to look out for in a person’s array of personality.how bothered he is,in any way.i had a pal… a married woman infact,whom i brought out for a swensen’s outing and ordered her favourite ice cream.whilst tucking in,she mentioned that i was the only guy pal who knew what her favourite flavour was.i was aghast."don’t bullshit.your husband?"…"he does not know.and i will not bother to tell.he never bothered to ask." strange but in some instances…it is true.if i am married to a woman at this age band of maybe 25 or 26…do you realise that i am actually given the chance to ask 25 or 26 years worth of questions about my partner.coz i was not there with her all the while. do you know how many bedtime stories i can occupy myself with,when with her.<laughs>
• make "US" a dynamic concept. "I" is something you can work on yourself. "YOU" is something she can work on herself. "US" takes the both of you.
• have songs to be the highlights of your relationships.it helps.not necessarily the romantic ones.Eamon’s "f**k it,i don’t want you back" might be useful.<giggles>
• do things together.sing together.laugh together.hate each other together.take pictures together.eat together.travel together.irritate each other together.read together.love each other together.cycle together.shop together…go crazy over each other together.heeeeee….

many other things…but since this is free publication,i’ve decided to compile my lists in a book format to be sold later in stores nationwide. $7 a book.

come closer…

one day,on the platform of a hotel ballroom…i will be dressed in a black suit seated just in front of a piano.my tender fingers will be playing the notes and melodies of Gavin Degraw’s "More than anyone" just for that very…very…very…very…very…very special person.<laughs>…whilst pictures of us,is being displayed in the background in a slideshow format.coming down the steps…walking over to her…and just asking for her hand,so that i can lead her to the dance floor,as the song "no one else comes close" by joe is being played…

soundman…louder please…

lightman…dim the lights…spotlight please…

enter ring bearer…

audiences and diners clap…

balloons down…

just a simple hug…that’s all that is needed.

birth.<love>marriage<love>.death.

we are interluded in this life by a thing called love…how wonderful.the communion of two specially God created individuals to bring forth another Life…with the legacy of continuing where we left off…is such a beautiful thingy.what am i saying…

close the lights…and just communicate on the bed…just connecting…gosh…mind blowing….

sex is over rated.

leaving me breathless with just your words…now that is another thing altogether.heeeee.

anyone in with my idea of starting a LOVE CONSPIRACY?

Unknown
You can understand the facts of life. But facts of love are much different. To love you love someone or someone loves you.. But when you both love each other you’re in love with one another. First become friends and let it go. Then get serious and get together. Just make yourself known as a person not as someone you don’t want to be known as…

Sir Hugh Walpoe
The most wonderful of all things in life, I believe, is the discovery of another human being with whom one’s relationship has a glowing depth, beauty, and joy as the years increase. This inner progressiveness of love between two human beings is a most marvelous thing, it cannot be found by looking for it or by passionately wishing for it. It is a sort of Divine accident.

ps: life’s not over.i can always try again. i’m young but i’m wise enough to know,that you do not fall in love overnight.let Time set it right…

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